Can I Use a Vibrator With My Partner?

Vibrators are no longer the last resort of the desperate spinster (have they ever been?). They're great fun to use and can be a healthy way for couples to spice things up in the bedroom.

Communication is the Key

Ladies, if you've never discussed the subject of using a vibrator with your hubby / fella / lover / special friend / random passer by it can be a tender subject. It's probably a fairly bad idea to bring up the topic in bed, particularly after sex as it could lead your fella to feel that the quality of his performance is under fire. Not a fantastic idea if you're actually trying to spice things up a little!

Ummm... something more subtle perhaps ladies?

The Element of Surprise

Oh, and definately don't just turn up with one. Even open minded men can get a little intimidated when you pull out that 12 inch ribbed dong from the bedside cabinet. Talk about it first, possibly even choose one together, and discuss how you're going to use it. Believe me, the experience will be far more pleasurable for you both!

Incorporating a vibrator into your foreplay and lovemaking can be intensely pleasurable for you both. Don't forget to have it all loaded up with batteries and ready to go before you start though, as fumbling around with electrical appliances in the dark is a definate passion killer!

Finally, make sure you both communicate about what feels good when using the vibrator. They can be a bit of a weapon of mass destruction if used carelessly.